Hi. You’re welcome, and thanks for the compliment! I sympathize with you! Been there, still doing that! (See my redivorce/undivorce post and I’m gonna enter a new blog post soon on what’s going on now. You wouldn’t believe it if you heard it!) Anyway, what you need to do is get a good lawyer that has experience in dealing with “difficult” soon-to-be-ex spouses. I am not a lawyer, but I’ve been through years of dealing with an “N”. You will have to interview a few! They are hard to come by. I believe many lawyers/judges have NPD themselves so they don’t see what’s going on as being harmful to the child. That’s been my experience anyway. What is your wife trying to do? Full custody? You’re in luck because many states now try to get the child custody as close as 50/50 as possible. I know if you did the majority of the care, that’s heartbreaking. Done that! And with a N, they’ll lie to get what they want. You need to try to communicate with her and get things in writing. However, be careful she doesn’t get anything she can use against YOU. Always appear respectful, never yell, never say anything about the divorce or your ex in front of your son. I left a year before the time that it “stuck”. That was never mentioned. I took her with me when I left but I let him see her. There was nothing he could do about it. Most likely, they’ll look at who cared for your son the last two years. Get evidence, ppl who knew, day care, child care, etc. She will lie! She will lie when you don’t think she will! Be prepared. Have documents to back EVERYTHING up! Save everything involving her. You never know what you’re going to end up having to use! Best of luck. If you have more specific questions, please feel free to reply!